The ‘S’ Word…

Yes, I’m talking about SINGLE! With Valentines Day coming up and things that have happened to me recently, it really got me thinking.┬áNow I have been single for a LONG time, like a long time…but if I’m being completely honest with you, I’m pretty happy about it. I’m not gonna lie, obviously having someone to cuddle and share things with would be nice but I definitely don’t need a man to complete me or to make me fully happy! I saw this on Pinterest and I think it couldn’t be more spot on…

 

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This photo is just amazing…and it is so true! I feel like sometimes in life we are always in such a rush to find things that will make us happy e.g. A MAN that we start slightly changing who we are to make it work or to make them love us more and like this photo says its the biggest mistake we can make. We as women have been creating and developing ourselves, our personalities, our passions for years so why should we try and change ourselves to make a man happy?! I have definitely been guilty of this in the past…aiming to please just because I thought it was what I wanted! Turns out…it wasn’t. I remember in my first relationship, I thought I was so in love and I thought it was going to be forever. I was so young and so naive that I just turned a blind eye to what was going on right under my nose just because it was easier to carry on rather to admit he was up to no good. Don’t get me wrong, I wouldn’t change any previous relationship for anything because they have turned out to be the best life lessons for my future that I have ever had! But a few unsuccessful relationships later, I’ve come to the realisation that focusing on my life and what I want is the most important thing right now! I am definitely a woman who is in a full blown relationship with her career…being away from home for 8 months of the year isn’t exactly a solid foundation to start a relationship! And I’m super happy with that! I know that one day, I will meet someone who will turn my world upside down and it will be magic and all of that nonsense…but right now I’m pretty happy and content being the third wheel everywhere I go!

TOP DEFINITION
single woman
A female who prides herself in independence and freedom. She is the life of the party, and the inventor of fun! She lives an exciting, fast-paced life which many envy.

“Today’s single woman is so rad! She can have it all; nothing slows her down.”

If you yourself are a single girl, don’t rush into anything for the sake of it! Embrace being single and the independence it brings you! Go out and live your life, fulfil your dreams and destiny before its too late! Literally nothing is holding you back! Here’s to every single girl out there…we are the best!

All my love, Phoebe x